Codependency

We are extremely loyal but also extremely insecure. Self-doubt is our constant companion, and often self-hatred.  Being unacceptable to ourselves, we hide our true selves, convinced that if anyone truly knew us, they would abandon us. This fear of abandonment often fuels our codependent behavior as we seek to do everything in our power to become so valuable that others would not want to leave us.  By choice, our lives are not our own and our emotions are the property of  … the person closest to us.

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